No life speech or some boring poem that is written on Pinterest. Just… something short. Something with a clear statement that is not for the effort.
It doesn’t matter you are a woman or a man, we are all experiencing the daily grind that can be characterized by noise, excess, or simply a nonsensical state. On these days, when I am troubled, I want a sentence that gives warmth like a real-life friend and which says, “You can do it alone. It might be messy, though.”
Actually, I have already gathered a series of these quotes at the back of my mind, which I have slowly picked from various sources—some are jotted in notebooks, some are passed on to me by others, some come from the books I read, and who knows? Some even might be found in a random Tumblr post. They’re not always perfect. That’s the challenge.
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Some That Just… Hit Right
- “You’re not too much. They’re just not enough.”
- “Being soft in a hard world is a rebellion.”
- “You are allowed to take up space.”
- “She didn’t lose herself. She walked away on purpose.”
- “If they wanted to, they would. That includes you.”
- “Don’t set yourself on fire to keep others warm.”
- “Strong looks different every day.”
- “Her silence wasn’t weakness. It was wisdom.”
- “No is a boundary, not a betrayal.”
- “This chapter is weird. Not the whole book.”
When You’re Burnt Out but Still Breathing

We all hit that wall sometimes. Not the dramatic kind. Just the quiet, exhausting kind where even replying to a message feels like a lot.
- “Rest is productive too.”
- “You’re tired, not broken.”
- “Keep going… or don’t. Either way, you’re still worthy.”
- “Slow progress is still progress. You’re not stuck.”
- “You don’t need to be inspiring. Just be real.”
- “Even existing right now is brave.”
- “It’s okay to not care today.”
- “Trying counts. It always counts.”
- “There’s no gold star for burnout.”
- “This part is hard, but you’re not doing it wrong.”
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Not-So-Cliché, Just Real
Look, some quotes are overused for a reason. But also… some feel like they were written by someone who actually got it. You’ll know what I mean.
- “Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim.” – Nora Ephron
- “I am not afraid of storms, for I am learning how to sail my ship.” – Louisa May Alcott
- “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” – Eleanor Roosevelt
- “She believed she could, so she did.” – You’ve seen this everywhere. Still? Sometimes it works.
- “I’m not afraid to eat alone — I know what I bring to the table.” – Unknown
- “The most courageous act is still to think for yourself. Aloud.” – Coco Chanel
- “There is no limit to what we, as women, can accomplish.” – Michelle Obama
- “Tough times never last, but tough women do.” – It’s a bit dramatic, but okay.
- “They tried to bury us. They didn’t know we were seeds.” – Oldie, but still kind of beautiful.
- “Your voice matters. Use it, even if it shakes.” – True every time.
Quiet Power Is Still Power
I used to think strength had to look a certain way. Loud. Bold. Taking up space. But some of the strongest women I know? They just are. No performance. Just steady.
- “She speaks in silence, and people still listen.”
- “Still waters run deep. Don’t mistake it for passivity.”
- “Your calm is your power.”
- “You don’t have to match anyone’s energy but your own.”
- “She left, not because she couldn’t stay—but because she knew better.”
- “Boundaries don’t make you mean. They make you clear.”
- “You’re not here to babysit other people’s comfort.”
- “Being firm isn’t being rude.”
- “Let them misunderstand you. It’s not your job to explain.”
- “You get to define ‘enough’ for yourself.”
Those Little Reminders We Need More Often

Some days, you just need someone to remind you of the stuff you already know but keep forgetting. So here’s that:
- “You’re not behind. There’s no finish line.”
- “Your body is not an apology.”
- “Pretty is not your only adjective.”
- “You’re allowed to be complicated.”
- “You don’t need permission to rest.”
- “Your softness is a superpower.”
- “Messy doesn’t mean failure.”
- “You’re more than your productivity.”
- “Not everyone needs to get it.”
- “You don’t owe anyone your sparkle.”
A Last Note
It’s kind of funny how often people search for inspirational quotes for women expecting something super polished. Maybe with flowers. Or glitter. Or a font that curls like a yoga flyer.
But what I’ve learned is that the real stuff—the stuff that lands—it’s never perfect. It’s usually said by someone at their limit. Or someone who lived through something and came out the other side with a little less fluff and a little more truth.
So yeah, this isn’t some “girlboss” pep talk.
It’s just a list of words that helped me. Maybe one will help you, too.
FAQs
- Q: Is it cringe to save quotes in my notes app?
A: Not at all. I have an entire folder. Judge me. - Q: Do people actually use these quotes in real life?
A: Yup. I’ve seen them in lock screens, tattoos, emails, even resumes (seriously). - Q: Any tips for finding ones that feel real and not cheesy?
A: If it makes you roll your eyes, skip it. If it makes you pause, save it. - Q: Is it weird to cry over a quote?
A: Not weird. Probably healthy. - Q: Can I make my own quotes? Like, ones I tell myself?
A: Absolutely. You’re the voice you hear most. Might as well make it kind.

Kamran Shahzad crafts words that celebrate life’s special moments. As an expert in wishes and gifting, he brings you thoughtful messages and creative gift ideas to make every occasion unforgettable.